Learn From Me

From the beginning of my sex work career, I have operated on an incredibly flexible basis. It has taken time and experience to narrow in on what appeals to me, and, more importantly, what works for me in a client and provider relationship. Working on a spectrum from call girl to domme has granted me numerous insights into myself and the industry. And with those past experiences in mind and new goals and desires moving to the forefront, I am announcing— clarifying may be the better term—that henceforth I will only be offering my services as a dominatrix. Better yet, you will only be offering yourselves as supplicants. America has shown no desire to repent from a fresh wave of Puritanical prosecuting. Technocrats are willing to bend themselves and reality whichever way allows for advertising streams to flow and data mining to continue. Our cyber dystopia continues to warp and expand; who or what is simulacra? Does it really matter? And escorting, already a difficult job, continues to incur more risks. The legality of our positions is tenuous, and maintaining our safety is usually a solitary task. A reference or a location being shared are insulators from violence, but they are not particularly good ones. To say I am tired of navigating this would be an understatement, I wonder with every date if this could be when a timebomb goes off. But no, I am not so naïve as to believe that only offering dominatrix services will be an impenetrable wall of sadism. But I will not be providing incall dates, and the legality of my work—while still in the crosshairs of America’s latest moral panic— will nevertheless be much clearer. She lives in my head, that whip holding dominatrix, patent leather heels glistening, and bloodred lipstick accentuating a smirk that chances sliding into a maniacal grin. She is me. You love her, and so do I. That woman, that goddess, deserves the chance to claim her spot on the pedestal. Offering escort services has detracted from her ability to do that. Dedicating my time to becoming a better domme is a decision to bring my actions into better alignment with my values. I am interested in novel forms of control in addition to honing my bondage and physical punishment craft. Escorting does not offer me the breadth of control I desire, and I will no longer compromise. Lastly, the relationship between my transness and clients’ desires while escorting have not been particularly inline with mine. Often it seems that any actual opportunity to engage in rich scenes or lifestyle domination is obfuscated by desire centered solely on my dick. This will not be an option. Worshipping that part of my body will be regulated solely to the digital sphere. Perhaps finish uploading your consciousness? I’ll gladly help your transition into a new world. It is insanely presumptive to believe that amateur attempts at serving me (here I am using the often-veiled speech for providing me with oral attention) are anything I would enjoy anyways. Serving me, as the words literally mean, is directed mostly by my desires, and certainly not your projected ones. I’ll be looking forward to being your goddess—full fury and mercy.